Tell us a little about yourself dating
Think about if you would find it strange for someone to be acting like this if you just met in real life.If someone was expressing over-the-top love and passion within a couple weeks, you’d be worried.
If their profile says they’ve lived in Ohio their entire lives, but they’re using non-standard English, or have notably poor grammar, that could be a warning sign (think of the kinds of errors you’d see in a Nigerian scam email or on the phone, where they need to spontaneously come up with things to say. Obviously, there are plenty of non-native speakers out there who are sincerely looking for a relationship, and they could very well be from heritage speaking communities in the United State or Britain.
For example, scammers will often ask you to communicate with them outside of the dating site—via email, through Facebook, or even on Skype.
These methods give them better access to you and can help them gather additional information that they can use to con you.
Scammers also often list themselves as widowed (especially with a child), self-employed, or working overseas.
They might also say that they live near you, but that they’re away; they could be in another country on a trip or for work, but they’ll almost certainly be somewhere far away where you can’t meet them.